| When I was growing up as a child in the | | | | Gone are the days when you felt you needed to |
| sixties, kitchens were always a hidden | | | | detain your guests in the comfort of the |
| affair. If it was not separated by a wall | | | | Italian velvet sofa in the lounge while you |
| from the other rooms in the house, then a | | | | excuse yourself and slave away in the dark, |
| divider had to be installed to hide it from | | | | hot and steamy recesses of the kitchen |
| the rest of the world. Inviting friends over | | | | preparing their food. Now there is no shame |
| to the kitchen to show off your new kitchen | | | | or cringe to invite friends over to the |
| island or cooktop was not the thing to be | | | | kitchen because kitchens have become the hub |
| done. | | | | of family life and social entertaining. |
| | | | Architects, home builders and appliance |
| But not anymore. The kitchen of my adult | | | | manufacturers have all taken heed of the new |
| years has now become the focal point of the | | | | trend and have made kitchens not only |
| house and the people who live in it. There is | | | | functional and efficient but also |
| still the obligatory lounge room to receive | | | | overwhelmingly stylish. Even whitegoods now |
| guests but it is now just a little room on | | | | come in different colors of stainless steel, |
| the way to the grand, open space of kitchen, | | | | earthy brown, luminous orange or buttercup |
| family and rumpus rooms combined. | | | | yellow to suit everyone's desire and taste. |
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| This is where most families now gather after | | | | Friends are invited to hover around stylish |
| a long days work - the parents preparing the | | | | marble-topped kitchen islands as they |
| family meal while the children (if they are | | | | continue with their socialising, talking |
| in their schoolyears) do their homework in | | | | about nothing and maybe even lending a hand |
| the family dining table or (if they are | | | | in washing the vegetables and peeling the |
| already young adults), sit and chatter around | | | | potatoes. Even wine bars are now in the |
| the breakfast nook or family room couch. | | | | domain of the kitchen (not the basement or |
| Kitchens now exude warmth and welcome helped | | | | the lounge) as friends sit down and relax in |
| by the oak or teak oil-finished kitchen | | | | the midst of kitchens sipping their favorite |
| cabinets that usually line the kitchen walls, | | | | red or white. |
| as well as mahogany or red cedar curio | | | | |
| cabinets housing revered family treasures | | | | Even when alone, my kitchen has always been a |
| such as photos and bowling trophies. | | | | delight and a quiet refuge from the hustle |
| | | | and bustle of the outside world. When I wake |
| I have long used my kitchen as my lounge - | | | | up in the morning, I find no greater joy than |
| one of the rooms in the house that I consider | | | | seeing the sun streaming through the beige |
| most comfortable, functional, tribal and | | | | voile curtains of the northeast facing |
| welcoming . My husband and I and anyone of my | | | | kitchen window into the deep purple flowered |
| kids who occasionally fancy themselves as the | | | | african violets and tall and lanky chinese |
| new Jamie Oliver can showcase our gourmet | | | | fortune plants that brighten up the farthest |
| talents as we gracefully move around the red | | | | end of my granite kitchen benchtop. And when |
| and brown speckled granite kitchen island or | | | | I come home from work in the evening, I open |
| benchtop to the glistening stainless steel | | | | the very same northeast facing kitchen window |
| sink to the brown flattened glow of the | | | | to be greeted with the sweet scent of the |
| ceramic cooktop. All these in view of the | | | | orange jasmines that line the backyard fence. |
| rest of the family, and often times friends | | | | |
| and guests who we show in straight to the | | | | My kitchen has certainly come a long way from |
| kitchen/family/dining room area to sit in our | | | | its hiding place in the sixties and I intend |
| beloved dark aubergine brown no-nonsense, yet | | | | to enjoy it and keep it that way for a long, |
| sumptuous and very practical "Virginia" sofa. | | | | long time more to come. |
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