| I want to speak to you about something big, but that | | | | you can achieve everything you want"! You CANNOT |
| hardly ever gets mentioned. And yet this can have a | | | | bully yourself into happiness and feeling of abundance |
| profound effect on your success with attracting | | | | with attracting women. |
| women. In fact, it will affect your overall sense of | | | | So what can you do about it? I highly recommend - |
| well-being and happiness in life. Have you ever felt that | | | | KILL YOUR INNER BULLY! Or, at least, tell him to shut |
| you are not where you want to be in life? That you | | | | up and get lost. Once you do, you'll feel your other |
| should be doing something else instead? That you | | | | inner voices emerge. Those voices that motivate you |
| should be speaking to N (insert any random number) | | | | from the space of desire instead of fear or lack, from |
| of women per week if you want to "get there"? And | | | | the space of contentedness instead of anxiety. You'll |
| that if you don't, then your life would always remain | | | | speak to those beautiful women, because you'll |
| single and lonely? | | | | WANT TO, not because you HAVE TO. And that will |
| I, for one, heard those thoughts many times, and then | | | | make you come across as a much happier and |
| felt this pervasive sense of gloom and doom about | | | | genuinely attractive guy, who knows what he wants. |
| my life. It made me feel unsettled and anxious, and | | | | Instead of being that needy guy, who speaks to |
| then I would go out and start chasing women, counting | | | | women out of necessity and fear, and is ultimately |
| the number of women I spoke with per night. This inner | | | | repelling to women... |
| voice and the resulting anxious feelings have been with | | | | So how can you shut down your inner bully? Here's an |
| me for most of my life, like some kind of inner army | | | | exercise for you: |
| sergeant. This inner voice pushed me into doing things I | | | | Killing Your Inner Bully Exercise |
| was scared of doing. In fact, I got so used to it that I | | | | 1. Become aware of things you say to yourself |
| even thought of it as my own inner drive, my | | | | habitually. For example, "I should do better", "I must be |
| motivation... | | | | doing this or that", or "I wish I was [good with women, |
| A friend or a bully? | | | | rich, more outgoing, etc.]..., but I cannot, because I'm too |
| And then I imagined having a friend like that. A friend | | | | [old, bald, poor, etc.] ". Write them down in your journal. |
| that would keep saying to me that I'm not where I | | | | 2. Pay attention to the feelings of lack, fear, depression, |
| should be, that I should be having more success with | | | | anxiety that those thoughts trigger. Write them down |
| women, but, in fact, I'm not even good enough to be | | | | too. |
| with them. And then I thought: "Hold on a moment, is | | | | 3. Ask yourself: where in your life did you hear those |
| this REALLY a friend?" Hell, no! That was my INNER | | | | voices for the first time? Because, guess what, you |
| BULLY, pushing me to do things out of fear and | | | | were not born with them, somebody taught them to |
| anxiety. Because If I had a friend like that, I'd tell him to | | | | you! Who was that? |
| go to hell and NEVER come back! | | | | 4. Knowing what you know NOW, what would you |
| So, I wonder, do YOU have an inner bully? And do you | | | | say to that person / people about these bullying |
| still allow him to call the shots in your life? In fact, do | | | | thoughts? Let them respond - silently in your head, and |
| you still believe that if you were to fire your inner bully, | | | | continue speaking to them until you feel an inner shift. |
| then you wouldn't have motivation to do things in life? | | | | 5. Finally, when you are ready to let go of those |
| And that you'd spend most of your life on the coach | | | | bullying thoughts and ideas, decide what thoughts you |
| watching movies, eating chips and getting fat & lonely? | | | | want to choose to have instead. For example: "I |
| The Sausage Machine - Or The Real Way To Be | | | | accept myself exactly as I am", "My success in life is |
| Happy and Attract Women | | | | inevitable", "Women are naturally attracted to me". You |
| And the thing is that you cannot bully yourself into | | | | get the idea, right? You can use any your |
| REAL success with women and overall life happiness. | | | | self-empowering affirmations here. |
| Because as Richard Wilkins puts it, life is like a | | | | Summary |
| sausage machine: Whatever you put in determines the | | | | To sum up, I want to tell you that killing your inner bully |
| flavour of the sausages you take out of it. Put pork in | | | | is a continuous process, rather than a one-off venture. |
| - get pork sausages... Put beef in - get beef sausages... | | | | Become conscious of your anxious thoughts - and |
| So if you pump in fear, anxiety, frustration and anger | | | | you're half way there. This is one of the most |
| at yourself into your life, you cannot expect your life to | | | | important steps to becoming naturally attractive to |
| suddenly become happy one day. You'll get fear, | | | | women and living a happy life. And this goes way |
| anxiety, frustration and anger sausages! Not too | | | | deeper than just saying "have fun and you'll be |
| appealing, is it? Sure, you can get laid a bunch by | | | | attractive to women". It's more like "Accept yourself |
| pushing yourself, but, HAPPY - no way! That's what | | | | and your life how they are right now, and success with |
| most motivational gurus forget to tell you. Those gurus | | | | women follows naturally! |
| who claim "get enough leverage to push yourself and | | | | |